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May
31
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Jan
12
Obviously, a relationship will be at its weakest point after adultery but in a way, that can be a positive thing. That may not make sense to you but actually, the moment after adultery will be when you can make or break the relationship; after all, something needs to change, for good or for bad.
The moment when a relationship is at its weakest point is also the best moment to make the effort that will transform it to being its strongest. But you have to make a commitment that you want to save your relationship.
Most people think that an adulterer should not be given a second chance because nobody likes to be or should be cheated on. However, cheating is not the problem, it is the symptom. Normally there is always a cause for infidelity and if anything good is to come after adultery, it is realizing that there’s a problem that you need to deal with.
If you want to save your relationship after adultery, then your relationships will need a complete overhaul. There is no other way to go about it, because if you just try to go back to the way things were before, then you will find out that the story will repeat itself.
The First Step
You will need to start over again and build the relationship back up from the bottom. So, the first step is to spend some time apart. This may seem to defy reason because you are dealing with a situation after adultery; you might not want to let your partner out of your sight. Actually, the separation will permit you to look at your relationship from a different angle, and this viewpoint will be important for the repair process that will save your relationship.
The Second Step
The second step is to work out what the problem was exactly; and I don’t simply mean “they were sleeping with another person”. You have to find the deep rooted problem that was behind the infidelity, and you need to find a solution for this problem.
Starting Over Again
After completing the first two steps, if you still want to save your relationship you will have to start the relationship over again. The important point is to start from the very beginning; go on dates again as if you were dating somebody else. You have to think of this as a completely new relationship if you want to save your relationship after adultery.
Even though you are building a new relationship after adultery, you must remember the problems that made this process necessary. Avoid making the same mistakes; the plan is not to have the same relationship you had before the adultery, it is to have a better one.
If you really want to save your relationship after adultery, it will be difficult but hopefully it will be worthwhile in the end. I would like to recommend that you get the best help that is available for couples in your situation. That help comes in the form of an e-book called The Magic of Making Up which has a fantastic record of helping couples, so please check it out immediately.
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Oct
11
I have been in a relationship with a man for 1 year and a half. He recently started talking to a girl over 1,000 miles away in April. They constantly talk on the phone or text (I know this from snooping). The girl even made a trip to see him and he denies it all, but I know its true. They talk all the time and now he hardly pays me any attention. On top of that, I am 3 1/2 months pregnant. Please help me somehow.
My question to you is why would you want to save this relationship? Cheating is a deal breaker and cheaters don’t deserve second chances. Is this the atmosphere you want to raise your child in? It’s better this baby be FROM a broken home than living IN one! He has deceived you and betrayed your trust. Your relationship will never be what it once was. This relationship will not last……it’s better you make the break now and get settled into your own place before the baby is born so he/she can start their life off in a calm peaceful environment.
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Sep
27
I really love my boyfriend with all my heart and i really wanna be with him and i know he loves me and care for me too but i’m afraid he is cheating on me but he still makes me feel so good. I barley see and talk to him like i usually do. I just made him mad with me and he is very disappointed with me at moment so what should i do to save my relationship?
It seems that he’s taking you for granted. He thinks you will always be there because he knows that you love him and won’t want to leave him. He feels “safe” enough to flirt with others or cheat on you because you won’t bring it up. I don’t know what you did to make him upset, but both of you have tension and its best you put everything in the open and talk to each other about whats bugging you. Saving the relationship should not depend only on you. It takes both of you to make things work. If he doesn’t feel the same then maybe its time to reconsider your relationship. You don’t deserve to be cheated on. If you don’t want to straight up break up with him- then maybe you could hang out more with guy friends or get to know more people. Give him the idea that he could possibly lose you. Maybe that will wake him up and stop taking you for granted. Guys usually want what they can’t have…Good luck!
That is some good advice, the sort that TW Jackson gives in his relationship book that explains all about Getting Back With An Ex under these circumstances.
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