He and I were in a relationship for 12 1/2 years which as a result leading up to a breakup due to his off and on infidelity in which as a result he has a baby on the way now by another woman. I’m devastated and hurt as a result. He broke up with me even though I still love/hate him now too.
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July 25th, 2010 at 7:01 pm
I know how you feel, me and my girl broke up because she was always doing fishy things. And I know material things aren’t everything but I’ve spent so much time and money into the house, which is hers but we always split the bills, so now its like someone else is gonna be enjoyinbg what I’ve worked for.
To answer your question, Its hard for me everyday, but I just try to keep thinking that I am worth getting treated better then the way she treated me. I know how I loved and cared for her and would never do the things that she did to me. So there just has to be someone else out there for me.
Before I met her I always wondered if I would love anyone, and she came along, so if I’m single its gotta be bound to happen again, right?
Hope I helped or at least let you see that your not the only one that this happens to.
July 25th, 2010 at 7:01 pm
best way to get over it is by starting dating! I’ve done it and I forgot about him, lets just say 60% of him by dating new guys and making new friends. if you still think of him, you will never be happy. well he’s already happy so why not show him that you moved on too? isn’t that better? you don’t want to look desperate right? so move on!